Riding the White Horse.
Jan. 29th, 2002 08:48 amWell, the day calmed down a bit in the half hour left to me. I got home and flopped out briefly - I live with my folks, so I was grateful to all the gods in Heaven when my father didn't immediately knock on my door and ask about dinner, but instead went to make a series of phone calls. I love the man dearly, but the only way he'd make dinner if there were someone else in the house is if that person had a wet hacking cough and was rambling about Lady Bird Reagan. . . anyway, I got five minutes of peace before I had to get up and make dinner. Fortunately, it was leftovers, and we had enough to make a reasonable plate for each of us without someone running out of stuff they were willing to eat. I cleaned up the kitchen, then grabbed my drawing pad, clicky pencil, big fat eraser, and Fall Fashion Special GQ Issue from 2001 and plopped myself down on the couch. (More on that later.) The drawing went well, so I went upstairs when I reached a stopping point and worked on my homework for Data Mining. Eventually I got to RP, and life was good.
The thing about a day like yesterday is that it was... I suppose spastic is close to the right word. I don't mind working hard. I don't mind having a list of tasks as long as my leg in front of me, and I don't mind knowing that I have to get things done NOW NOW NOW NOW NOW. I temped in a patent attorney's office for two or three days, and those were some of the best days of my temping career. The attorney would smile at me in the morning, hand me three dictaphone tapes and a floppy, and ask me to get the changes done and paragraphs inserted as fast as possible. Then he'd leave, and people would leave me alone. I liked that. I had near-impossible deadlines and complicated tasks, but I was left alone to concentrate on them, and that was good. Even if it did mean periodically forcing my brain from writing about the design of nuclear reactor fuel rod storage units to the design of a new sort of down comforter, I got to do each thing intensely and in its own good time.
Yesterday was not like that.
Yesterday I was accosted every ten to twenty minutes by someone with a computer problem. I'm the only real computer person here; we've got another technical type, but he's essentially bound to our Braille printing division, and he's mostly hardware anyway. That means that if something goes wrong and you can't convince the computer your login ID is ok, you call me. If you don't understand why it's not picking up your email, you call me. If you're supposed to work on the machine next to the soda machine, but your boss who left for a job in Montana last week insisted that you were actually supposed to work on the piece-of-crap computer three cubicles away, you call me. If you find yourself typing in boldface and can't figure out why, you hunt me down at lunchtime and say 'oooh, it's not a priority and I know you're eating so don't rush or anything but just as soon as you're done can you please come over here and fix this for me since I don't know how to get out'. You get the idea.
Add to this the fact that I have three or four ongoing tasks at all times, because I handle a significant portion of the work in direct mail and finance, and you have a recipe for disaster. By the end of the day, my old friend the facial tic (a slight twitching of the lower right eyelid, which may or may not be visible from outside - God knows I feel it, though) had moved in, set up shop, and petitioned for membership in the local Better Business Bureau. That's why my last journal entry was the way it was. I had important work to do, and it kept getting interrupted. I couldn't turn the interruptions down because if I did, these folks wouldn't have been able to get any of their work done - but mine was suffering in the process, and absolutely nothing was actually getting DONE. Not the way to make me happy.
The whole thing reminded me very much of a dream I had two nights in a row back in October, when the Red Cross was in a tremendous amount of trouble in the public eye. The management had rather stupidly failed to convince the American public that preparedness for another terrorist attack was at the heart of their strategy for funds recently received, and events were spiraling out of control. The email we were getting - and I get all the email addressed to the chapter in general - was the kind of thing that'd scorch your eyebrows off. It was just more than any human being could handle, and we were all feeling it locally; I was really close to invoking about five or six of the threats on yesterday's list all at once, mostly because it's hard not to take that kind of thing personally when you're still wondering what the hell is in your lungs from spending Sept. 11 and 12 in lower Manhattan. The end result was two nights of the same dream - of riding a white horse, a stubborn and spirited creature who refused to respond to the reins no matter how hard I tried. Eventually he'd go in the right direction, but not until he bloody well felt like it. The only way he'd accept even the slightest bit of guidance was if it came in the subtlest and least intrusive ways possible - light leg pressure, shifting of weight, etc. Otherwise? Otherwise the horse took the bit in his teeth and did what he damn well pleased. In the end we got to where we needed to be, but the ride was naked hell...
Yesterday the horse had the bit in his teeth and a burr under his saddle. The only thing that kept me from goin' bow hunting for Toyotas was that I knew from experience he'd settle down eventually and it would all smooth out. That's more or less what kept me going until I could get home last night, knowing the horse would end up where we needed to be -
(Okay, at this point I have to stop and note something that's been nagging at me. There's all kinds of things that animals in dreams can stand for. In this particular case, drugs ain't on the list. I know one of the old names for heroin was 'horse', but that has nothing to do with the format of the dream. I neither drink nor smoke nor take any drug stronger than the caffeine concentration in dark chocolate covered espresso beans and/or Manhattan Special coffee soda. The horse imagery in this particular case is drawn from different cultural sources. Part of it is Susan Cooper's The Dark is Rising books, which I read as a kid; the idea of a rider of the Dark mounted on a white animal was a fascinating prospect. Part of it has to do with Hans Christian Andersen, who planted the notion that Death was a living person in a carefully embroidered coat, riding a pale or white horse, with his story about the Sandman. And part of it has to do with the fact that one of the scariest archetypal personae to live in my head is the Priestess of the Morrigan, aka the incarnation of Conquest, White Rider of the Apocalypse. Apparently either she or Death lent me a horse for purposes of the dream.) (No, the white rider of the Apocalypse is not Pestilence. G'wan back and look; the rider in white on a white horse is given a crown and a bow and told to ride forth to receive his victories. Pestilence is some kind of traditional intrusion, but the original and still champion is Conquest.)
Anyway. I rode it out and wound up at home with a little peace and a decent drawing, which I am still working on. And some good RP. And this morning it is relatively quiet, and I get to skip several hours' worth of staff meeting (still gotta attend the end, but that's not a problem), and the head of another chapter just called me and offered to hire me on Saturdays for a while to help him set up his new software system once he gets it installed. I can deal with this.
Binky's a real pisser to ride, but he gets you where you need to be.
The thing about a day like yesterday is that it was... I suppose spastic is close to the right word. I don't mind working hard. I don't mind having a list of tasks as long as my leg in front of me, and I don't mind knowing that I have to get things done NOW NOW NOW NOW NOW. I temped in a patent attorney's office for two or three days, and those were some of the best days of my temping career. The attorney would smile at me in the morning, hand me three dictaphone tapes and a floppy, and ask me to get the changes done and paragraphs inserted as fast as possible. Then he'd leave, and people would leave me alone. I liked that. I had near-impossible deadlines and complicated tasks, but I was left alone to concentrate on them, and that was good. Even if it did mean periodically forcing my brain from writing about the design of nuclear reactor fuel rod storage units to the design of a new sort of down comforter, I got to do each thing intensely and in its own good time.
Yesterday was not like that.
Yesterday I was accosted every ten to twenty minutes by someone with a computer problem. I'm the only real computer person here; we've got another technical type, but he's essentially bound to our Braille printing division, and he's mostly hardware anyway. That means that if something goes wrong and you can't convince the computer your login ID is ok, you call me. If you don't understand why it's not picking up your email, you call me. If you're supposed to work on the machine next to the soda machine, but your boss who left for a job in Montana last week insisted that you were actually supposed to work on the piece-of-crap computer three cubicles away, you call me. If you find yourself typing in boldface and can't figure out why, you hunt me down at lunchtime and say 'oooh, it's not a priority and I know you're eating so don't rush or anything but just as soon as you're done can you please come over here and fix this for me since I don't know how to get out'. You get the idea.
Add to this the fact that I have three or four ongoing tasks at all times, because I handle a significant portion of the work in direct mail and finance, and you have a recipe for disaster. By the end of the day, my old friend the facial tic (a slight twitching of the lower right eyelid, which may or may not be visible from outside - God knows I feel it, though) had moved in, set up shop, and petitioned for membership in the local Better Business Bureau. That's why my last journal entry was the way it was. I had important work to do, and it kept getting interrupted. I couldn't turn the interruptions down because if I did, these folks wouldn't have been able to get any of their work done - but mine was suffering in the process, and absolutely nothing was actually getting DONE. Not the way to make me happy.
The whole thing reminded me very much of a dream I had two nights in a row back in October, when the Red Cross was in a tremendous amount of trouble in the public eye. The management had rather stupidly failed to convince the American public that preparedness for another terrorist attack was at the heart of their strategy for funds recently received, and events were spiraling out of control. The email we were getting - and I get all the email addressed to the chapter in general - was the kind of thing that'd scorch your eyebrows off. It was just more than any human being could handle, and we were all feeling it locally; I was really close to invoking about five or six of the threats on yesterday's list all at once, mostly because it's hard not to take that kind of thing personally when you're still wondering what the hell is in your lungs from spending Sept. 11 and 12 in lower Manhattan. The end result was two nights of the same dream - of riding a white horse, a stubborn and spirited creature who refused to respond to the reins no matter how hard I tried. Eventually he'd go in the right direction, but not until he bloody well felt like it. The only way he'd accept even the slightest bit of guidance was if it came in the subtlest and least intrusive ways possible - light leg pressure, shifting of weight, etc. Otherwise? Otherwise the horse took the bit in his teeth and did what he damn well pleased. In the end we got to where we needed to be, but the ride was naked hell...
Yesterday the horse had the bit in his teeth and a burr under his saddle. The only thing that kept me from goin' bow hunting for Toyotas was that I knew from experience he'd settle down eventually and it would all smooth out. That's more or less what kept me going until I could get home last night, knowing the horse would end up where we needed to be -
(Okay, at this point I have to stop and note something that's been nagging at me. There's all kinds of things that animals in dreams can stand for. In this particular case, drugs ain't on the list. I know one of the old names for heroin was 'horse', but that has nothing to do with the format of the dream. I neither drink nor smoke nor take any drug stronger than the caffeine concentration in dark chocolate covered espresso beans and/or Manhattan Special coffee soda. The horse imagery in this particular case is drawn from different cultural sources. Part of it is Susan Cooper's The Dark is Rising books, which I read as a kid; the idea of a rider of the Dark mounted on a white animal was a fascinating prospect. Part of it has to do with Hans Christian Andersen, who planted the notion that Death was a living person in a carefully embroidered coat, riding a pale or white horse, with his story about the Sandman. And part of it has to do with the fact that one of the scariest archetypal personae to live in my head is the Priestess of the Morrigan, aka the incarnation of Conquest, White Rider of the Apocalypse. Apparently either she or Death lent me a horse for purposes of the dream.) (No, the white rider of the Apocalypse is not Pestilence. G'wan back and look; the rider in white on a white horse is given a crown and a bow and told to ride forth to receive his victories. Pestilence is some kind of traditional intrusion, but the original and still champion is Conquest.)
Anyway. I rode it out and wound up at home with a little peace and a decent drawing, which I am still working on. And some good RP. And this morning it is relatively quiet, and I get to skip several hours' worth of staff meeting (still gotta attend the end, but that's not a problem), and the head of another chapter just called me and offered to hire me on Saturdays for a while to help him set up his new software system once he gets it installed. I can deal with this.
Binky's a real pisser to ride, but he gets you where you need to be.